Sexual Orientation

 

 

"Sexual orientation" -- already, we have a slight problem.  Some do not like the word "orientation" as they feel it implies a choice in which one can "orient" themself to.  Those people often prefer the term "sexual identity" instead as that term implies more correctly an identity that one simply has.  Still, "sexual orientation" is the term used by most of society, and since that has "stuck", we will use it here as well.

 

Reminder:  GLBTQ = Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender, and Questioning

 

Sexual Orientation 101:  What Is It?  What 'Causes' It?  How Does One Identify It?  Why Do People Need to 'Come Out'?  And more . . .

 

Those Terms
Again!

In case you happened to miss
them, here's one more chance to
review many of the terms
we'll be
discussing here.

An Introduction
to Sexual Orientation

What Is Sexual Orientation?
Is it a Choice?
Can Sexual Orientation be Changed?

Answers to Your Questions For a Better
Understanding of Sexual Orientation & Homosexuality

Published by the American Psychological Association (APA).

[View]     [En español]

The BIG
Question:

What
"causes"
homosexuality?

What's Your
Number?

The Kinsey
Heterosexual-Homosexual
Rating Scale

How Does Someone Figure Out
They are Gay?

Six Stages
of  Homosexual
Identity Formation

"Coming Out":
Some Basic Issues

What is there to fear?
Why "come out"?
Who to tell?

It's Hard Being a Youth Today;
It's Much Harder Being a Gay Youth

The Stresses
on Lesbian & Gay
Adolescents

Stressors in the Lives
of GLBTQ Youth

Why the increased risk for substance use, dropping out of school, homelessness, sexual risk-taking, and attempting suicide?   (Note:  Article starts on page 3 of this document.)     [View]

Today's
Gay Youth

The Ugly,
Frightening
Statistics

The Impact of Homophobia and Racism
on GLBTQ Youth of Color

As members of more than one minority group, GLBTQ youth of color face special challenges in a society which often presents heterosexuality as the only acceptable orientation and in which nonwhites have disproportionately higher rates of negative sexual outcomes. [View]

"Gay?"
Whatever, Dude . . .

Changing social attitudes
and labels:
"Homosexual", "gay",
and "mostly straight"

Many Ask:  Is It A Choice?

 

We usually follow
that question with:

And then we answer:

 

 

So, You're One of  the "Fortunate" Ones To Be Born a Heterosexual.  Congratulations. 
We're Truly Happy For You. We Just Have a Few Questions For You About That.

 

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God's Calling:  A Pastor of a Georgia Megachurch "Comes Out" to His Congregation

This is a powerful video that shows Pastor Jim Swilley's "coming out" discussion with his congregation in Georgia.  His ex-wife of 21 years (and co-pastor at the church) is also present and is equally as moving as Pastor Jim is.  This discussion touches on many issues that are worth hearing, especially if you are a parent, family member or friend who still struggles with the fact that your loved one is gay or lesbian, or whether this is a "choice" or inborn, or with what your faith teaches about homosexuality.  It is also worthy watching if you yourself are gay or lesbian and are still struggling to accept your identity, or your place in the world as a gay or lesbian individual.  The discussion lasts about an hour and 15 minutes.  I cannot encourage you enough to take the time to watch and learn.  And, I think you'll be pleased with the response given by the congregation.

 
Watch live streaming video from bishopjimswilley at livestream.com

 


More Articles on Sexual Orientation:


Where to Go From Here?  Let Your Personal Education Continue . . . .

 

 

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  • Being intersex

 

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