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Established
Nov. 18, 1978

Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians And Gays - Phoenix Chapter.  Proudly serving the entire Valley of the Sun...and beyond!


 

Project Safe Space

What is Project Safe Space?

Similar to our Speakers Bureau, Project Safe Space is our free educational program primarily designed for middle schools, high schools and colleges.  We utilize this program to tailor presentations to student classes, teachers, counselors, school staff, administrators and/or parent groups.  Our primary purpose is to bring attention to the critical need of providing a "safe space" for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered and questioning (GLBTQ) youth at their school.  We do this typically by sharing briefly what PFLAG is and the work we do (i.e., our mission to support, educate, and advocate), by discussing basic terminology related to common GLBTQ terms, by sharing facts and statistics on GLBTQ youth in today's society and schools, and, if requested, the personal stories of those from PFLAG invited to participate.  As with our Speakers Bureau, we have the flexibility to easily tailor our presentation for any topics you would like us to address.

Why the Need for a "Safe Space"?

The reason we emphasize the need for a "safe space" in schools for GLBTQ students is two-fold.  Unfortunately, in the vast majority of schools today, students (GLBTQ and straight alike) hear anti-gay slurs over 25 times a day on average, according to recent studies, and students (GLBTQ and straight alike) are subjected to anti-gay verbal and physical assaults which are largely ignored by school administrations and faculty members who have not received adequate training to know how to handle such incidents.  Until recently, students subjected to these serious behaviors have had nowhere to turn.  However, after several successful lawsuits in recent years brought against school administrators and faculty, victims of this behavior finally have a voice…and a financial "punch" to schools if the they do not protect these students and prevent these types of serious behaviors from occurring in schools.  Project Safe Space allows our volunteers to educate school administrators, faculty, staff, students and parents about the needs to provide protections for GLBTQ students before serious damage occurs and lawsuits are filed.

 

What Does PFLAG Actually Do At The Schools?

Trained volunteers from our PFLAG chapter will meet with school administrators, faculty groups, student groups and/or parent groups, either on campus or at a designated off-campus location, and will prepare a tailored presentation for the invited audience.  Presentations can be tailored to focus on such topics as:

  • recent changes in Federal law which mandate that schools provide a safe learning environment for their GLBTQ students
  • the financial risk to school systems and administrators if such an environment is not provided and, as a result, GLBTQ (or straight) students suffer from harassment from other students and/or faculty members
  • the PFLAG Phoenix organization and the supportive, educational and advocacy services we provide
  • what the “coming out” process is all about and why GLBT individuals (and later, their parents) must eventually do so
  • personal accounts of GLBT individuals and parents of GLBT individuals regarding their own personal journeys of confusion, fear, education and acceptance.

What Else is Included?

  • Workshops/seminars/presentations to your school board, administration, faculty, and/or parents group – including a folder of resource materials for all attendees
  • Presentations to student classes
  • Presentations to GLBTQ support groups and to gay/straight alliance (GSA) student groups that may exist in your school
  • Assistance to help start a GLBTQ support group or gay/straight alliance (GSA) student group if one doesn't exist at your school
  • A free set of educational books (while quantities last) and pamphlets for the school’s faculty and/or student libraries, counselor, and/or supportive faculty member(s) so that materials are readily available for both staff and students
  • Cooperation with your school in any capacity needed to facilitate “Project Safe Space”, adapting to your school’s needs and/or limitations.

Schedule a Project Safe Space Presentation for Your School

If you would like to discuss a possible Project Safe Space presentation at your school or church, please contact us at 602-843-1404 or email us.  If you are interested in possibly becoming a volunteer with our Project Safe Space program, please let us know!  We are always in need of additional volunteers who can tell their personal stories.

 


How Can I Help/Support Project Safe Space?

There are several critical ways that you can support this very important project:

  • You can provide us the name of any GLBTQ-friendly/supportive teacher, counselor or other faculty member in a Maricopa County school so that we can contact them to see if PFLAG Phoenix would be welcome at their school to give a presentation.  We have discovered that the best way, and sometimes the ONLY way, to get into a specific school is through a GLBTQ-friendly faculty member.  Your contact may be the person who unlocks the door to an otherwise closed school to us.  Any names given will be held in the strictest confidence and you can remain anonymous if you prefer.  To help in this area, please email us the name of the individual(s) along with their contact information and the name of the school they are associated with.
  • You can give of your time and become a participant in our Safe Space presentation.  We desperately need more GLBT individuals and parents of GLBT individuals in our group of volunteers.  We will provide you with free training.  All you really need to be able to do is to tell your own personal story – it’s that simple!  Most critically needed are those individuals who are available during school hours to attend school presentations.  However, we also have afternoon and evening slots open as well!  To become a volunteer or to just request additional information, just email us with your name, email address and/or phone number.
  • You can give us financial support.  We operate on a tight budget and we must purchase all the resource materials provided to the schools.  Your financial gift, fully tax deductible as allowed by law, will go a long way in helping us to ensure that we have the funds needed to cover the costs of these resource materials.  Our volunteers give freely of their time and no individuals receive any payments for speaking.  To provide financial support for this project, send your check, payable to PFLAG Phoenix/Project Safe Space, to:
 PFLAG Phoenix/Project Safe Space
 2942 N. 24th St.
Suite 114-310
Phoenix, AZ 85016

Safe Schools Resources

  • From Our House to the Schoolhouse: A Safe Schools Publication: Making schools safe for gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered youth is an important part of PFLAG's work. Facts about anti-gay harassment in schools and important legal landmarks are detailed in this booklet for educators. Resources and a "safe schools checklist" are also included.