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Be Careful WHO You HATE . . . |
Be careful WHO you
HATE – it could be SOMEONE you love.
--Author unknown--
I am
the girl kicked out of her home because I confided in my mother
that I am a lesbian.
I am the prostitute working the streets because nobody will hire
a transsexual woman.
I am the sister who holds her gay brother tight through the
painful, tear-filled nights.
We are the parents who buried our daughter long before her time.
I am the man who died alone in the hospital because they would
not let my partner of twenty-seven years into the room.
I am the foster child who wakes up with nightmares of being
taken away from the two fathers who are the only loving family I
have ever had. I wish they could adopt me.
I am one of the lucky ones, I guess. I survived the attack that
left me in a coma for three weeks, and in another year I will
probably be able to walk again.
I am not one of the lucky ones. I killed myself just weeks
before graduating high school. It was simply too much to bear.
We are the couple who had the realtor hang up on us when she
found out we wanted to rent a one-bedroom for two men.
I am the person who never knows which bathroom I should use if I
want to avoid getting the management called on me.
I am the mother who is not allowed to even visit the children I
bore, nursed, and raised. The court says I am an unfit mother
because I now live with another woman.
I am the domestic-violence survivor who found the support system
grow suddenly cold and distant when they found out my abusive
partner is also a woman.
I am the domestic-violence survivor who has no support system to
turn to because I am male.
I am the father who has never hugged his son because I grew up
afraid to show affection to other men.
I am the home-economics teacher who always wanted to teach gym
until someone told me that only lesbians do that.
I am the woman who died when the EMTs stopped treating me as
soon as they realized I was transsexual. (yes, this actually
happened)
I am the person who feels guilty because I think I could be a
much better person if I didn't have to always deal with society
hating me.
I am the man who stopped attending church, not because I don't
believe, but because they closed their doors to my kind.
I am the person who has to hide what this world needs most,
love.
I am the person ashamed to tell my own friends I'm a lesbian,
because they constantly make fun of them.
I am the boy tied to a fence, beaten to a bloody pulp and left
to die because two straight men wanted to "teach me a lesson"
I am the gay male student that had to switch to another high
school on my senior year, because I told my teachers that I was
gay. One said that I was going to hell the other wanted to cure
me.
Yes, Virginia, there
really is a reason why we say . . .
HATE
is NOT a 'family value'!
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