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Nov. 18, 1978

Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians And Gays - Phoenix Chapter.  Proudly serving the entire Valley of the Sun...and beyond!


 

2004 PFLAG National Conference Wrap-Up

The 2004 PFLAG National Conference was a huge success!  Six Phoenix PFLAGers joined Arizona PFLAGers from Flagstaff and Page/Lake Powell chapters for a 3-day weekend of presentations, workshops, dinners and awards.  Highlights included moving testimonials from both parents of Barry Winchell, the Army private who was brutally murdered in his barracks on July 4, 1999 (and subject of the HBO movie "Soldier's Girl") who were there to receive a humanitarian award for their work on behalf of their son and the unfair and un-American "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy which fueled Barry's death.  The amazing and inspiring true story of the attorneys from GLAD (Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders) who successfully fought and won the right for gay and lesbian couples to legally marry in the state of Massachusetts was also very moving.  Also on had was Esera Tualo, the recently "out" ex-professional football player who served as our inspirational (and musically gifted) emcee of the conference's Gala Dinner.

There were many other inspirational and heartfelt moments during the conference, but we here in Arizona are most proud of the special recognition that Bob, president of PFLAG Page/Lake Powell received when he was recognized for the 2004 PFLAG Chapter of the Year - Honorable Mention award.  Way to go, Bob!!

Below are some photos from our trip to the 2004 PFLAG National Conference.  You'll note that there are far more photos from a small protest that was held outside the conference hotel -- they are included here so that you can see the vile, hateful messages these "professional anti-gay protestors" were spewing.  Fortunately for us, they also tell the inspiring story of one man who decided enough was enough -- you'll have to keep reading to find out who that heroic man is . . . .

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Our Arizona contingent at the conference:
(Note:  All are from PFLAG Phoenix unless otherwise noted.)

(Front left) Bob (from PFLAG Page/Lake Powell), Phil and Bud.
(Back left) Mike, Bunny and Daria.
(Not pictured, but there) Georgia (from PFLAG Flagstaff) and George.

PFLAG Phoenix chapter co-president Bunny, and her husband George, enjoying the Gala Dinner and Awards Ceremony at the conference.
Ron Schlittler, interim Executive Director of PFLAG, and Bob, president of PFLAG Page/Lake Powell and recipient of the 2004 PFLAG Chapter of the Year - Honorable Mention award.

Way to go, Bob!!!

You make all of us in Arizona proud!

Esera Tualo, "out" ex-professional football player and emcee of the 2004 National PFLAG Conference, and 2004 Chapter of the Year - Honorable Mention award winner Bob, president of PFLAG Page/Lake Powell.
The 'lovely' site we encountered on our last day of the conference as we left the closing session/brunch to the conference hotel across the street.  Who were they?  The 'friendly' crew of the vile and anti-gay Rev. Fred Phelps and his pathetic clan from GodHatesFags.com (visitors to that site beware!).  Also along for the protest, the anti-gay Rev. Lou Sheldon.  Guess we were 'twice-blessed' that day!
One and a half (note the extra pair of legs!) protestors with their 'curious' signs (Note the one that says "God:  USA's Terrorist" Huh?
Has anyone informed George W. of this?
More 'inviting' signs.
Wait!  Who is that among these vile protestors?
Could it be . . . ?  Why, yes it is!
It's PFLAG Phoenix's own George (husband of
Bunny) standing tall among these idiotic protestors!
What's he doing?  Why, he's giving them some special verbal 'PFLAG love'!!
George, what on Earth are you doing?

Why, he's taking charge and leading these miserable singers in their unpatriotic songs . . . and trying to show them what rhythm is all about!  Yeah, he's got the beat!!

There goes our heroic George again.  None of these protestors are going to forget this man anytime soon!  Why?  Because nobody gives it back as good as George does.  And, he does it without all the vulgerness that these protestors did.
That's really cool!
Tell it to the finger, baby!

Go home and cry to Mama!!

Okay, this is getting really sad.  These confused protestors aren't sure what has hit them!  Where did this human hurricane come from?!  How come he's better at this protesting business than these goofballs???
Let's see if we got this right:  Seven yelling idiots versus one Phoenix PFLAGer.  Who wins?  Keep going!  :-)
You tell 'em, George!

And tell 'em, he did!!

Wait!  Where are they going?  Why are they quickly packing those signs away?  George doesn't care -- he's got a message for them!  And, packing up or not, George is gonna make sure they hear it LOUD and CLEAR!
"Na-na-na-na.
Na-na-na-na.
Hey, hey, hey.
GOODBYE!!!

Toodles, you little pathetic protestors!

PFLAG George for Congress!  :-)

Our hero-of-the-day, George, relaxing and basking in his well-deserved battlefield glory with his I'm-gonna-strangle-him-if-he-does-that-again supportive wife, Bunny.

George, we love you, man!!

Our version of the 'Mighty George vs. the Nelly Protestors' spat:

Although our newly elected PFLAG Phoenix co-president Bunny may strangle him for taking them on, we're all very proud of her husband George who single-handedly out-shouted the anti-gay Rev. Fred Phelps gang (of www.godhatesfags.com fame) and anti-gay Rev. Lou Sheldon who were protesting at this weekend's PFLAG National Conference in Salt Lake City.  Apparently, our George was too good at giving them what they were trying to give to all of us (albeit in a non-vulgar manner), and they quickly packed up their vulgar hate-spewing signs and headed home!  Way to go, George!!! 

The Salt Lake Tribune's version:

Anti-PFLAG protesters chime in on issues during rally outside conference

By Jason Bergreen
The Salt Lake Tribune
 
Sign carrying protesters rallied outside a Salt Lake City hotel Sunday, loudly opposing this weekend's gathering of Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays.

The small group of eight to nine protesters, members of the Westboro Baptist Church in Topeka, Kan., shouted, “you hate children,” and “scat,” along with other stronger language, at PFLAG conference attendees and anyone else crossing the street between the Little America and Grand America hotels between noon and 1 p.m.

The protesters, some standing on American flags, waved brightly colored signs with slogans that read “God Hates Fags,” "Thank God for Aids,” “Thank God for Sept. 11,” and “Death Penalty for Fags.” They also sang America the Beautiful ,
  changing the lyrics to disparage homosexuals.

At one point Sunday, PFLAG member George Tarquinio confronted protesters by waving his arms above his head and begging for salvation. “Help me, help me, I want to repent,” the Phoenix, Ariz. man said mockingly.

At one point, a heated verbal exchange broke out briefly between a protester standing on the corner of Main 
  St. and 500 South and a motorist who stopped to comment on her sign. Another man entering the Little America hotel greeted the protesters by holding up his middle finger. But the hour-long protest, though loud, was peaceful and mostly ignored by pedestrians.

A Salt Lake City police officer kept an eye on the city-permitted protest from his parked patrol car about 20 feet away.

PFLAG 
 member Sue Null, of Houston, Texas, said the group actually helps the gay and lesbian cause. “It's unnerving,” she said of the protest, “but the long-term effect is that they are so outrageous any thinking person wouldn't come out and support them.”

 

Why don't you join us at the next PFLAG National Conference in 2006?!?